THEY WERE PRAYING IN A CIRCLE, BUT NO ONE TAUGHT THEM HOW
It was just after snack time when I noticed something odd—the classroom had gone completely quiet. For a room full of 4- and 5-year-olds, the silence was startling. I peeked into the play area and stopped.
There they were—Niko, Janelle, Izzy, and Samir—sitting in a circle, hands clasped, eyes closed, whispering. Not giggling or playing pretend—praying. I heard soft words like “help,” “please,” and “amen.” Janelle even made the sign of the cross.
We don’t do religious activities in our public kindergarten classroom. But here were these kids, forming something sacred on their own. I gently asked, “What are you doing?”
Izzy whispered, “We’re asking the sky to help us.”
“Help with what?”
Niko pointed at Janelle. “It’s for her mom.”
Later, Janelle’s usual ride didn’t come. No emergency contacts answered. Finally, I got a call from Nadine, her neighbor. Janelle’s mom was in the hospital—dehydrated and dizzy, but stable. “She didn’t want to scare Janelle,” Nadine said.
When I told Janelle her mom was getting help, she nodded. “That’s why we prayed,” she said softly.
The next day, Janelle wasn’t in class. During circle time, Izzy asked, “Where’s Janelle?”
“She’s with her neighbor. Her mom’s still resting.”
Izzy’s voice shook. “But… we prayed. Why didn’t it work?”
“Sometimes things take time. Maybe we just keep hoping,” I said.
Later that day, Nadine called—Janelle’s mom might come home that night. When I shared the news, Izzy clapped. “It’s because we prayed, right?”
“Maybe your kindness helped more than we know,” I said.
A few days later, Janelle returned, glowing. “Mommy’s okay!” Her friends hugged her, then sat in their circle again. This time, their whispers were full of gratitude: “Thank you, thank you, thank you.”
At lunch, Janelle told me about the “pokey shot” and how her mom needs rest. Then she added, “I hope Mommy doesn’t have to work so hard so she won’t get sick again.”
When I finally met her mom, she looked tired but healthy. “I’ve been working two jobs,” she said. “I passed out. I’m so embarrassed.” Her voice shook. “Thank you for watching out for her.”
“You take care of yourself,” I told her. “She needs you.”
Two weeks later, I walked in after lunch and saw that same circle—but it had grown. More children were gathered, whispering their hopes: a lost kitten, a sick grandma, a dad without a job. They ended with high-fives and giggles.
I hadn’t taught them this. No one had. They simply cared. Maybe kids don’t need to be taught compassion—they just need space to show it.
So here’s what I learned: never underestimate the quiet power of hope, or the deep kindness in a child’s heart. Sometimes, it only takes a circle of small hands and whispered wishes to remind us what truly matters.